Recently i discovered the joys of my favorite toy once again, the rubiks cube. Even today it is just as much fun as it was 15 years ago but this time the rules had changed. This time the goal was to solve ALL the sides and not just my favourite colour which was red and looking at it this time for some reason my grey matter slipped to one of those tangents where i start to intellectualize because i had nothing better to do and because masterchef australia was not scheduled on tv at that very moment and instead there was star world playing on Grays Anatomy (oh wait! its the other way round? well the advertisment overdrive for the show is to blame for it). Now here comes the important part.
Statutory Warning: Do not read further if you do not intend to stress your gray matter.
So as i pondered i realised an essential truth that confused me. When i was young, only one side of the cube meant the world to me and whenever i solved my favourite side i was overjoyed thrilled and satisfied and life seemed content but now achieving the same does not move me because i know that there are 5 other sides to be solved too and i need to achieve that to feel the same joy.
So whats the argument? i realised “the level of work required to achieve the same feeling of satisfaction for a man of less knowledge compared to a man of greater knowledge differs in proportion to their knowledge”.
A man with one dimensional view has greater options to look from to solve a problem which is relatively smaller and easily achievable and his goals are achieved quickly but a wise man who looks beyond that one dimension finds that his options are limited and his task harder to achieve the EXACTLY same level of satisfaction and joy.
Makes sense? Confused? Wondering if i am on drugs and or of sane mind? lets try and simplify it
Lets take one colour as our one dimensional thinking, one point of view and Our options in hand as choices of life (right and wrong both). For a man with one point of view, his sense of right and wrong is obscure and restricted because of his one dimensional thinking thus his options vast, but a man with a greater knowledge has to think about how his choices will affect him in the future on his trip to the other side of the cube. He thus has limited choices because his sense of right and wrong is refined and sharp.
So what it is it better to be? Thinking one dimensional and being happy or having a multi dimensional thinking and a working harder to achieve the same happiness?
I see most of my friends drinking, smoking, taking life as a joke and using girls as an object and being so happy where as a few of my friends (and with few i mean rare as kryptonite) being sober, non addicts and saintly enough that they would dare not even raise their middle fingers in an argument because of their sense of ethics and dignity.
If you are reading beyond this sentence then im glad you made it so far. As a human we aim at achieving happiness, lets not deny that. Then which way do we take? Is it wrong to be narrow minded? Why the fuss about rights and wrongs if our aim is to be happy?
I know which way il be taking yet i can not justify it because i see my friends happy at the moment with choices i believe are the “easy way out” yet i dont connect to those ways.
I always believed that having no regards for right and wrong, ethics and narrow minded was wrong and waited for Karma to play its part and got frustrated on how these people were not being punished for their wrong choices but now i realise that they are not to blame for their choices as what seems wrong to me might not seem wrong to them (no matter if it Really is wrong)
The only solutions i have come up with is that maybe i have knowledge but that does not mean i am wise, maybe i think i am multi dimensional but maybe im not. This question does bother me though and if you have reached till here then BANG!!! this is the end and i would love to know what you think about this.
Einstein, Hawkings and Newton….we all know them for creating spectacular scientific extravaganzas and one of them being TIME. They all have studied time and have defined laws that state how time can speed up or slow down and have stated various factors that affect the speed of time, yet they have omitted one of the major influencers of time and that is LOVE.
Yes Love. An experience that has no words to define it and the enigma that we all have explored with bated breaths and sighfull experiences. Today I write and dedicate this blog to the one and only love of my life who has brought a dazefull sparkle to my life with her diamantine love, Nishita Salia. We recently celebrated 50 months of togetherness and feeling of oneness and now I sit and realize how fast these 1520 days passed. It seems like yesterday when I sat at the table right next 5 pairs of glaring eye tracking every movement I made, the memory as fresh as the sumptuous treats of yougurtbay. When I look back to that innocent time I often laugh at myself for being so lame but it wasn’t easy for a guy who was being forced into a relationship with a girl he hardly knew anything about (that’s another story worthy of a blog, and I promise to share that with my loved ones too!!!). Sitting there having a constipation of thoughts and a diarrhea of talks. It certainly feels that my love and me have come a long way because we can now sit together around a hundred doodling and blabbering heads without talking to each other and still feel like we had the best conversation. 50 months have whizzed by and there has certainly been a lot of changes in person but one thing that remains on a constant is the feelings that we have for each other. With each passing day she makes me feel impossible to live without her. Love can change the whole world without changing itself and I have been lucky enough to experience it with the angel that god sent for me. Thought the time we spent together seems to have flown by but we definitely have travelled a long way together holding each others hand and faced every adversity like a game of Mario, where no wonder how many times u fall you would always bounce back to end the game like a true hero. We have faced the tsunami of envious miscreants with ark satanic thoughts and wishes to do us apart and situations that could break the souls of mightiest warriors yet have always risen like a phoenix and slain the satanic evil souls and triumphed every situation. We have grown from little innocent imps of infatuation to a reflection of each others love and I thank that one soul who holds the ocean of love to transform our relation to what it is today. Times have changed and so has the world around me but the one thing that keeps ticking the feelings to wake up to her voice has never changed and always grown like a seed watered with love and absorbs the warmth of true spirit. These are the times I have cherished and thank many disgracefull souls and my useless friends to have introduced me to the most beautiful girl I have ever known. May time zoom past to eternity while our love blossoms like a beautiful flower in the fountain of youth.
As i step into the world of blogging(yes yes i know im a little late!!) i would like to welcome myself and the world to the real me. I have a brain buzz of thoughts that i would like to share with the world and try to figure out how crazy i am or how crazy the world thinks i am, so lets make this place a better thought to live in. Lets start with the thought that strikes my mind at the moment-techno isolation. I remember stepping into my sisters room and sneaking on in personal diary to figure out what she is up to(come on dont judge me o fast…i am of the curious kinds), this was of course eons ago. We humans are a lot curious about whats going on in other people life and we thrive on juciy gossips and sumptuous prejudices about people around us and therefore will do anything to get that and i am no different. Well i ended up getting a spanking of my life. Now at this moment, i dont need to sneak into peoples rooms and diaries for the same but just open there facebook profile or read there tweets and blogs. People have there most intricate details of life typed down for the whole world to see. People have lost that personal space that was reserved for themselves. The me time has has been taken over by our cravings to be wanted, loved and have gazillions of friends. This makes me think that are we opening up to the world or isolating ourselves from within? i sign of with this question and hope people share their views.
